Saturday, October 3, 2009

envy

I am in envy stage...

I am envious of those woman who have a man to provide a nice house for her and their future family.

I am envious of those who are newly wed.

I am envious of those who have someone to love her.

I know people will advised me by telling me that everyone will eventually meet their partner.

But I still like to complain!!!!!

6 comments:

walla said...

Negative feelings create bad vibrations. These vibrations will only turn people away who could have come by to help solve the problem that caused the negative feelings.

I see people go to work every morning. I should be envious of them. It is good to have a job and make an honest living. So that the money earned can be used to provide for others.

But sometimes life doesn't give immediately what one desires. Or it doesn't give at all.

What then to do? Just look at the things we have right in front of us. Big or small helping, each thing will be exactly and just enough for us to get past the moment.

I sit here to type this for you. The 'enough' is made of my brain, eyesight, hands and fingers, this laptop, the connecting wires, the modem, the electricity and your blog post. This is all the 'enough' i have at this moment. There is nothing more to have and add to the 'enough'. Take away anyone of them, and the 'enough' becomes 'not enough'.

In all the 'enoughs' of the world, the element called 'envy' is superfluous. It doesn't have to be there. In fact it is a negative feeling which will make the other parts of each 'enough' not work properly.

Don't be too unhappy about not having what is desired. Many people are in the same boat. Sometimes not getting something may end up better than getting it because there is a cost in getting something and that cost is hidden somewhere else.

Just carry on. What more can life ask of anyone? Deliver good vibrations all the time. And good luck should come one day.

complicated said...

Yes I admit this blog is vibrating bad vibe. I guess that is the purpose of existence of this blog.

Today I watched a youtube bout life is cup of coffee. life is the coffee. There are many cups we choose to fill the coffee. No one will choose a ugly and cheap cup to fill their coffee. And we will always compare our cup wit other people's cup. Cups typified by materials, job we have. But all we want is to drink the coffee, not the cup. Maybe just be satisfied with the cup we already have is the best thing we can do.

walla said...

To know you have enough is to be rich.
Tao

complicated said...

That is true. There is always but.. but human hardly be satisfied

walla said...

The journey is the reward.
Tao

complicated said...

agree with ur quote!